Loss is painful

It’s been a while since I have written and it is not because I have no time to do so.
For some time now, I have found myself lost in a wilderness of melancholic thoughts that depress me and slaved by numerous memories that creep into the deepest recesses of my mind.
I lost and losing is nowhere near happiness. Any kind of loss takes away a part of us that we can no longer regain. This is the very reason why losing hurts. Before you lose something, you have to own it. Such possession of an object, a person, a place ripples across horizons of our existence. Possession defines, molds, nurtures changes which we adapt to and later on be immersed into until these changes become as imprinted as birthmarks.
Then you lose the possession and the pain of such loss amounts to un-fathomable depths of sorrow.
To lose is to forget, remember, remain, let go…


One thought on “Loss is painful

  1. Ecclesiastes 3 :1-8

    1 There is a time for everything,
       and a season for every activity under the heavens:

     2 a time to be born and a time to die,
       a time to plant and a time to uproot,

     3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
       a time to tear down and a time to build,

     4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,   a time to mourn and a time to dance,

     5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
       a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,

     6 a time to search and a time to give up,
       a time to keep and a time to throw away,

     7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
       a time to be silent and a time to speak,

     8 a time to love and a time to hate,
       a time for war and a time for peace…


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